Have you ever had a problem that you just couldn’t solve? We all have. So, what do we usually do? We try and try to figure it out. We apply more pressure. We drink some coffee to get it done. We stare at the screen to get it out. We enforce more rules and restrictions. I’m definitely guilty of this. …
What is Emotional Resistance? Why a “Technique” Won’t Work
There are so many tools for improving yourself out there. I’m sure if you’re reading this, you’re aware of quite a few. But do you find when you try to use them at times, they just don’t work? You’re wondering, “What is this emotional resistance? Why am I making myself feel worse when this thing is supposed to make me …
How to Deal With Anger: 10 Tips to Feel in Control Again
Do you ever get that feeling that it’s all too much? Maybe you got in a fight with your partner, you messed up a project, or something didn’t go your way. You feel like there’s a bunch of pent-up steam and energy and you’re about to explode. Learning how to deal with anger isn’t always easy. Anger is a normal …
How to Get Your Emotional Needs Met
Why should you care about your emotional needs? Well, getting these consistently met and knowing exactly what they are for you is the only way to become a happy, healthy, stress-free adult. It’s how you bring in everything you want in to your life, from money, to sex, good relationships, connection, great jobs, and more. This article will show you …
5 Dating Fears Men Must Conquer
Men (or more specifically masculine energy), are expected to lead relationships. Women want men who are confident and go for what they want – in life and with them. The problem is that nobody’s perfect. Many of us have an inherent fear of dating, hence the entire creation of the men’s dating advice community. We all have fears built up from …
Confirmation Bias – How Your Emotions Are Screwing You Over
I’ve already decided on what I want. I know I’m right so fuck what other people are telling me and anything to the contrary” is a straight forward way to describe the psychological term confirmation bias. The problem is when this is applied to depressive thinking, such as “I’m a loser”, it can be quite harmful. How do you stop …