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How to Stop Self-Sabotaging: 11 Tips to Get Out of the Habit

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Have you ever had times in your life where you felt like you were getting your own way, wondering how to stop self-sabotaging all of your goals, hopes, and dreams? You talked yourself out of doing something you knew you needed to, stepped down from asserting yourself and putting your needs forward, or engaged in negative behaviors you know you …

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Motivating Goals: A Simple System You Can Use to Set Them

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Setting motivating goals is the key to making progress in life. If your goals don’t motivate you, it’s going to be hard to get excited about them, and push through the more challenging days or things you need to do. In this article, you’ll get a step-by-step system to set goals that give you energy and get you fired up …

3 Breathing Exercises for Anxiety and Other Challenging Emotions to Try Right Now

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As a man, I think you and I can both agree that we come up across many challenging situations in life. It’s in these situations where using breathing exercises for anxiety or other difficult emotions can really help. Maybe your boss is being annoying, your family is pissing you off, you got injured, something didn’t go your way…there are so …

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How to Get Your Emotional Needs Met

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Why should you care about your emotional needs? Well, getting these consistently met and knowing exactly what they are for you is the only way to become a happy, healthy, stress-free adult. It’s how you bring in everything you want in to your life, from money, to sex, good relationships, connection, great jobs, and more. This article will show you …

How to Actually Achieve Your Goals – Search for the Process…Not the Event

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When it comes to planning how to achieve your goals, you need to make sure you don’t fall into a trap most people do… What am I talking about? In MJ DeMarco’s new book, Unscripted, he talks about how most people want to jump and search for the event of success vs. the process. The event is what someone gets …