Welcome to Your New Life

How to Feel Better with Practical Habits, Tools, and Actionable Steps without the Platitudes, “Just Visualizing It,” and other Hand Waving.


Hey, I’m Noam Lightstone.

Yes, that’s my real name and yes, that’s me BOTH on the left and right.

See, I used to be extremely negative, upset, and frustrated… But I had no idea why.

With a lot of work, determination, and finding the tools that worked for me… I changed.

  • I went from never having any deep romantic relationships to experiencing LIFE changing moments with women.
  • I went from not having any friends to having close ones I can talk about anything with.
  • I went from being stuck in a path of needing to be in a job to creating multiple businesses and being able to work from anywhere.
  • I went from never travelling to visiting over 20 different countries and living long term in Thailand and Vietnam.

…And more.

Guess what?

You can do the same.

How Is Light Way of Thinking Different from the 102319821231231 other Self-Improvement Resources out There?

Good question. Here’s the 3-point summary:

  1. I deal with this stuff. I’m not some therapist sitting in an ivory tower talking academics from a book I read in college. This is from experience and how I’ve learned to manage my own emotions in relationships, work, and more.
  2. I’m not perfect, and I don’t pretend to be. I go through stuff, and you go through stuff. Let’s not pretend and let’s figure out ways to constructively deal with things.
  3. This is neither the place for hand-holding B.S. or whipping yourself. I believe in finding or creating tools, habits, and systems to get what you want with hard work. This is practical advice you can apply that moves you forward.

Light Way Of Thinking is for you if you want support, but you’re also ready to take MASSIVE ACTION.

Here’s an idea of what you’ll find here:

The Avoider Mentality, Fear of Intimacy, and Avoidant Personality Disorder (AvPD)

Take Action: Tools, Habits, and Systems to Change Your Life

Mind Work: Mindset, Mindfulness, and Meditation

Dating, Relationships, and Social Anxiety

Life Lessons and Experiments

Self-Improvement, Motivation, and Inspiration



Best of luck on your journey and keep me posted!

– Noam