I am convinced that when it comes to social skills, there is one thing that will make people like you and think of you as an amazing person more than anything. It’s not how you look. It’s not how you smile. It’s not what type of joke you make. It has to do with connection – humans are wired for it. …
How to Deal with Repressed Emotions and How They Might Be Hurting You: Micro-Traumas
You’ve probably heard a common saying that goes something like: “Don’t bring up the past in arguments. Only deal with what’s going on right now.” This could be directed at the angry girlfriend who yells at her boyfriend about something not putting a dish away, but is really still mad about the fact that he went out with his friends instead of …
Perdita Di Controllo – Why You Fear Letting Go Of Life
As of writing this, I live in Toronto, Canada. I sometimes work at a café called Café chez Hélène. When I was talking to the owner about doing a webinar, I was trying to brainstorm what to do it on. She told me that whenever she is struggling to find an idea of what to write or sing about, she’ll ask “What do …
Killing The Negativity In Your Life And Proven Ways To Be Happy
You want to be happy. You want to have a positive attitude and live your life enjoying what is in front of you. Unfortunately, you might be held down by circumstances in your life that you aren’t even aware of. Garbage In Your Life Is Holding You Down Why are you being held down? There’s a phrase in computer science which goes “Garbage …
Remember – You Are Still A Kid Inside
When we were kids we looked at grown ups with wide eyes. “Man it’s going to be so cool when I’m grown up!”, we all said. “What the hell is that big bushy thing on my Dad’s face that feels scruffy? I want one!” (Only if you were a guy… uh, I guess?) “What’s the big thing …
Don’t Be A Savior, You Can’t Save Them – Here’s Why And What You Can Do Instead
You are a good person. You don’t like seeing others in pain, you’d love for there to be peace in the world, and you try to be sympathetic and empathetic towards everyone (unless you are an asshole. In which case, see ya later!)… But do you ever find yourself saying “Oh if they only knew or did X they’d be …