What if? How many times have you asked yourself that question? What if I had said this… What if I had done this… What if I had tried this… Then for each, what if I had ___ it this way, or that way, and so on… We all wonder about different outcomes that may have happened …
The Work-Reward Productivity Cycle Method
Fuck I don’t want to write that paper! God I just can’t bring myself to clean those dishes. Ahhh I don’t want to go to the gym! Sound familiar? Why is it that things we have to do, or things that are good for us are SO hard to get done? Why can’t our brain just let us …
On the Importance of Praise
All human beings want… no, NEED love. When we were children we hopefully received much love from our parents, who cared for and nurtured us. Now as adults, we still need it too. We get it from our intimate relationships, our friends, and ourselves. And one of the best ways to show someone you love them is to praise them. …
Men – Get Safe People
Being a man is not easy. You’re supposed to lead, have direction, be integrated in terms of your emotions, be able to handle tests from feminine energy, balance priorities, find your direction in life, be strong, take care of your family…
Approach Anxiety and Bitch Butterflies
To all men (and perhaps some women out there): You see them across the room. They look so attractive. Who are they? Are they friendly? Interested in who I am? Would they be interested in getting to know me? Are they just going to reject me? I don’t think I want to do it. No I want to go talk …
Fuck Self-Improvement. Try This First.
Searching self-improvement online comes with so many hits… Fitness, fashion, emotions, cooking, productivity, sex, happiness… but I feel that we miss the most important thing that needs to be done before doing ANY self-improvement.