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5 Dating Fears Men Must Conquer

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Men (or more specifically masculine energy), are expected to lead relationships. Women want men who are confident and go for what they want – in life and with them. The problem is that nobody’s perfect. Many of us have an inherent fear of dating, hence the entire creation of the men’s dating advice community. We all have fears built up from …

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Relationship Advice – How To Feel Stronger And More Loved

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We are all wired for intimacy and connection and a lack of these things can make us depressed, unproductive, and weak. And no, just because you are in a romantic relationship doesn’t mean you necessarily feel that you have intimacy and connection. Why is it that some relationships seem abusive and like the couples always fight? They seem to always tear each other …

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Why Getting A Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Can Change Your Life (With An Example)

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In a Mark Manson AMA posted on Reddit a few years ago, two points stood out to me. Paraphrasing: “One healthy relationship teaches more than 1000 cold approaches [walking up to random women and introducing yourself in the hopes of getting to know/date her] or 100 lays [sex with a girl, usually noted for casual encounters].” “Getting into a relationship with …

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Why Do Fear And Anxiety Control My Life?

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Risk involves anxiety, and anxiety may come up with many choices that we make in life. But when you let your anxiety and fears dictate those choices you become a slave, with choice only being a figment of your imagination. This is serious. You only have one life to live, and you need to make the choices you want! YOU need …

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The Avoider Mentality and the Fear of Intimacy

Noam LightstoneThe Avoider Mentality, Fear of Intimacy, and Avoidant Personality Disorder (AvPD) 174 Comments

The insecurity and unknown burrows into your brain like a parasite, constantly clawing at you and never relenting. You hate the feelings of the unknown that cause the tightness in your chest, that choke your throat. You try to speak to them but it never comes out right, it never comes out as the way that you think it should …