Why do men have a fear of relationships and intimacy? This is at the core of a lot of the questions I get asked. The problem is, us guys aren’t even aware of the fear most of the time…until it’s too late. We either go through life never experiencing the opportunities and connections available to us, our girlfriends or wives …
Your Avoidant Partner: 7 Questions to See If It’s Time to Leave
One of the most common reader questions I get is someone asking if they should stay with their avoidant partner. I mean it’s a crappy feeling isn’t it: You really like or love the person and do care about them. But, you’ve got your own needs to look out for and deserve to be happy. You deserve to be with …
How The Fear of Intimacy Sabotages Your Dating Life – The Avoider Mentality (Guest Post at PostGradCasanova)
I wrote about how the avoider mentality and the fear of intimacy hurts men, 5 reasons why you might suffer from the avoider mentality, and a 3-step action plan to get over it over at PostGradCasanova: What is the avoider mentality? Well as much as it might feel weird to admit, and as supposedly un-masculine as it seems, us guys WANT …
Top 5 Questions about the Avoider Mentality and the Fear of Intimacy
As of writing this post, I have received almost 100 personal questions from people on this subject and in total, I’ve written back and forth with different people to add up to 100 pages of writing. It’s the #1 most popular article on this site and you can read the original here. It doesn’t seem like the questions are slowing …