The Avoider Mentality and the Fear of Intimacy

Noam Lightstone The Avoider Mentality, Fear of Intimacy, and Avoidant Personality Disorder (AvPD) 174 Comments

The insecurity and unknown burrows into your brain like a parasite, constantly clawing at you and never relenting. You hate the feelings of the unknown that cause the tightness in your chest, that choke your throat. You try to speak to them but it never comes out right, it never comes out as the way that you think it should …

What’s Your Laycount, Bro?

Noam Lightstone Life Lessons And Experiments 4 Comments

What’s your number? Your count? How many lays? How many dragons have you slayed?   How many women have you been with?   For some reason this number will always be at in the subconscious of how men are judged. No matter what, it seems that we as men regard this number quite highly no matter where our main interests …

Asking What If – Missed Opportunities, Regrets, and The Probability of Your Life Occurring

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What if?   How many times have you asked yourself that question?   What if I had said this… What if I had done this… What if I had tried this…   Then for each, what if I had ___ it this way, or that way, and so on…   We all wonder about different outcomes that may have happened …