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The Top 5 Lies Of The Pick-Up Artist And Men’s Dating Advice Communities

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Guys get in to the pick-up artist (PUA) and men’s dating advice (MDA) movements for different reasons: Some desperately want a girlfriend. Some haven’t had sex in years or… ever. Some genuinely want to learn how to connect with women and build emotionally powerful relationships. Some want to use women for their own selfish needs. Many believe the everyone in …

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The Guide To Empathy And Connection

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I am convinced that when it comes to social skills, there is one thing that will make people like you and think of you as an amazing person more than anything. It’s not how you look. It’s not how you smile. It’s not what type of joke you make. It has to do with connection – humans are wired for it. …

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Don’t Be A Savior, You Can’t Save Them – Here’s Why And What You Can Do Instead

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You are a good person. You don’t like seeing others in pain, you’d love for there to be peace in the world, and you try to be sympathetic and empathetic towards everyone (unless you are an asshole. In which case, see ya later!)… But do you ever find yourself saying “Oh if they only knew or did X they’d be …

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How To Confidently Approach Men – Conquering Approach Anxiety For Women

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You may have read articles about how if you are a “21st century woman”, you should approach men when playing in the dating realm… But, perhaps no one has ever clearly explained to you WHY women should approach men (instead of men just approaching you), or how you can actually start a conversation with a man you are in interested …

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The 10 Tenets Of Dating

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Dating should come with a rule book, some tenets if you will, that both male and female partners agree to. Here are 10 things I would like to see written:   1. Do not use me. As a man, I am not here to listen to all your problems. I am not one of your girlfriends. If we have been together …

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The Tragedy Of The Backpacker Relationship

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Many things are synonymous with backpacking – hunchbacks struggling with 30 pound loads, few clothes and not enough showers, and a thirst for adventure. Oh, and alcohol of course… But the one other thing that travelling seems to bring about is amazing people. I have found that backpackers, or travellers in general, are usually open-minded, friendly, and warm. It’s great, …