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How to Overcome Avoidant Personality Disorder (AvPD) and the Avoider Mentality


I want to conquer my fear of intimacy, authentically connect with anyone, and never feel like I’m alone again!

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  • How to be completely free of social anxiety, internalize that you’re amazing as you are, and know deep down that you deserve just as much love, intimacy, and affection as everyone else (hint: It’s all in your head).

  • How to identify how many avoider tendencies you have with a simple and quick quiz.

  • The REAL reason why you’re so scared of your own emotions, connecting with others, being abandoned…and what you can do about it.

  • How to bring out your authentic personality, share yourself with anyone, and destroy any feelings of shame.

  • Why you want intimacy and connection so bad, but are deathly afraid of getting them at the same time.

  • 3 essential tools to fast-track your progress in overcoming the avoider mentality.

  • The 7 mental traps you fall into as an avoider — how to identify them and how to get out of them FAST.

  • The one method to get over ANY fear you have, and why ‘Just do it’ is useless (you could pay THOUSANDS in therapy and not even learn this).

  • How to get out of those useless thought patterns and shame spirals—the reason you get into them and the one simple way to step out of them.

  • How to let go of past traumas and events that still torment you and hold you back.

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Praise for How to Overcome Avoidant Personality Disorder (AvPD) and the Avoider Mentality:

“The best book I’ve read in the attachment theory/relationship field. And I read a lot. Highly recommended for understanding how you form relationships at a core level instead of looking for quick answers that will just put you right back where you started.”

– Rick M., Toronto

“I’m SO happy I got an advanced copy of this book. I’m a recovering perfectionist and I learned when I was a child to receive validation and my worth based on what other people thought of me. I’ve always made excuses for it throughout my life, but Noam snapped me out of it with this book and makes me want to connect with people more showing who I REALLY am (not what I want other people to THINK I am) and be confident in myself. There’s nothing wrong with me, I’m awesome. He gives you the understanding of how to develop your own self-worth, self-esteem, and confidence, and how important it is in order to live an amazing life, and have beautiful relationships. He’s inspiring because he struggles with the same things, talks about his own struggles in the book, and that makes me feel understood. My favorite part of this book is how he shows you this super easy frame work: You went through bad stuff, your mind created things to keep them from happening again, but the conclusions are almost always untrue and they can limit you. So: Here are the tools and habits you need to push through things and feel safe. Amazing! One of the best self-help books I’ve read in a long time!”

– Liz S., Austin

“I’m a 22 year old male student currently in University. The reason I mention the “male” thing is that I know guys would think the topic of this book is lame and they’re too cool for it/they just want to get with a bunch of girls. That’s crap. Men need books like this just as much as women do… probably more so actually. Unless all you ever want to have is surface level relationships, you need to read this.”

– Dave M., Montreal

“It must be fate that I found this at a time when my emotional life was not going well. I’m so thankful to have gotten a review copy. The author uses a very comforting tone throughout the book and I really felt like he was speaking directly to me. Don’t be afraid to share this with the people in your life. I can’t say enough good things about this gem. It’s filled with timeless wisdom to get over what’s stopping you. Just read it!”

– Jen L., Boston